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Why go work out in the gym all day and come home too tired to have sex? Why not skip a day at the gym and work out in bed? I know what you are thinking, it can't be the same kind of work out, no it can't be. It is a better kind of work out! Who wouldn't love to work out and have an orgasm too!? I know that your lover enjoys those long sensual times in the bed, but they like a twist on things too. There are ways other than pounding the hell out of her that you can get a good work out. Of course, that is a good work out. I have known a lot of women in bed who loved to be pounded. They like it when you go fast and hard.
The faster the better. I would watch how hard you do it, that can hurt. Here we will suggest some positions that you can try. I would only suggest that you try these if you are in very good shape. If you aren't, you could end up hurting yourself. Even worse, you could end up hurting your lover. If your lover is at least 65 pounds lighter than you, this is a fun one. While standing, lift your woman by her thighs. Have her wrap her legs around your waist. Bend your knees slightly and keep your arms around her waist. Before you know it, you will be gaining strength and stamina. This exercises your biceps. Standimg up will excesses your hamstrings.
Equivalent in gym:
Bicep curls
Squats or lunges
Again, for this one, you will also be standing up. Find a flat surface that you can lay her down on. This surface should be as high as your pelvis. I would suggest a table top.
Have her spread her legs on the table. You should insert your penis as if you were attempting to do a missionary position. This position will drive both of you mad. This will feel great for both of you. You can take a break and stand on the balls of your feet if you like. Make sure you don't get too relaxed and go limp. What are you working out?
Standing on your toes will work your calves.
Resting on your feet will work your hamstrings.
Equivalent in gym:
Calf raises

Squats or lunges Having her be on top is a great way to work out. Though I have to say, that when my woman is on top, the last thing I am thinking about is getting a good work out. Well, that isn't all true, I think of my penis that is getting worked out. Have her ride you both go into pure ecstasy. While she is doing this, lift your head from whatever surface it is on. Kind of like how you would if you were doing sit ups. You will feel the burn in no time if you haven't worked out in awhile. Try not to pull any muscles in your neck. Not only would this be embarrassing, but it hurts like hell. She will think you are about to orgasm, you will be in so much pain you will think you are going to go nuts.
What are you working out?
Your abs?
Equivalent in gym:
Crunches
Again, you will need your woman to be on top. It is easy to be spoiled when your lover is on top all the time. While she is on top, only your shoulders and feet should be touching the ground. Arch your back so are in a 90 degree angle. This is a great work out and you will feel it in no time.
What are you working?
Your gluteus maximums (your ass)
Your hamstrings
Equivalent in gym:
Squats
Lunges
These are just a few of the work outs you can do in bed. If you don't feel like going to the gym one day, this is a great way to excesses. I wouldn't suggest that you do it very often. Once a week max for this type of love making. If you do it more than this, you will turn your love making into work. That is when sex becomes.

Women Who Fake
Peter James

"I have been married for 20 years. My wife just told me that she has never experienced an orgasm when we were together, but she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I don't know what to think. I love my wife, but she's been hiding this from me for more than 20 years! Why wouldn't she just tell me?" A lot of women fake orgasm. Some women in their 40's or 50's have been faking with their husbands for the entire duration of their marriages. Almost every woman has faked it at least a time or two. Which means that almost every man has experienced a woman orgasming who wasn't...

Why do women fake?

Some do it to avoid disappointing their partner. Some women wish to avoid continued intercourse, and fake orgasm to bring things to a conclusion. A lot of women are given the message that they are "less than" women if they do not have an orgasm. Some women realize that their partner is really trying and want to reward his efforts even though they didn't come.
Some women are afraid of damaging their partner's ego... Let's face it, some men DO feel mighty sensitive if his partner doesn't come.

Can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?
The best way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is by the way she acts afterwards. Women usually take a couple minutes to "come down" after good sex and an orgasm. If the woman you're with is immediately peppy and full of energy, she might be faking it.
Most women like to cuddle after sex, but a woman who does not orgasm often does not feel as cuddly. In fact, she's often rather energetic at a time where all that energy does not make sense - right after you made love. She may want to make coffee, or do a little cleaning. She will not feel close with you, and she won't feel relaxed.
As sexual tension builds, so does adrenaline. When we orgasm, the body releases chemicals that relax the tension. That is why men often fall asleep, and women seem dazed and dreamy right afterwards. A man or woman who has felt sexual tension build and has not experienced release will still be under the influence of the adrenaline.
"Was it good for you?"
Paradoxically enough, if you're not sure if your partner really came, and you ask her "honey, was it good for you?", you will often only irritate her. Even worse would be to ask her "Did you come?" We all like to feel that our partners are paying attention to what we're feeling and experiencing in sex. It is harder to read women because their orgasms do not include ejaculation - no woman needs to ask "honey, did you come?" because she knows he did.
Although communication is the key to resolving this situation, it often never gets addressed. For one thing, a lot of men are very sensitive about their bedroom skills, and are likely to respond with defensiveness or anger when told that their partner did not orgasm. These men often either blame the woman ("you're not woman enough") or simply make sure she knows that it isn't his fault by making regrettable statements ("my OTHER partners had no complaints").
If your partners are comfortable enough with you, you can determine more of what they really feel. But if you want your partners to trust you enough to communicate, you must be careful not to belittle or blame. Remember that it is harder for a woman to achieve orgasm, and that this is not your fault. Most likely she does not think it is your fault, either. She just feels sort of let down.
What can I do?
You can make yourself an accessible person to your partners. Make sure that you never say insulting or belittling things to them. You can simply tell them that you DO care how they feel but you cannot always tell if they have had an orgasm. Let them know that you will be more than happy to do whatever will make it easier to come, and that if they don't fake it, it would help you to know what they do and don't like. Point out that if they DO fake it, and if you can't tell, it doesn't mean you don't care but it DOES mean that you won't know.
If it's something as simple as taking more time, you're home free. Just extend the foreplay. If it's that she needs a different position, or only experiences orgasms with oral sex, that is certainly something you can work on.
Always let your partners know that you want them to experience as much pleasure as you do, and that you would like to know what you do that feels good, or that they don't care for. Let them know that you won't have hurt feelings, and it will help you to please them.
If a woman you're with fakes it after you have sincerely communicated this to her, it is her issue and not anything to do with you. If you find sex a way to share and communicate pleasure, and your partners know this, it should be good every time, even if one of you doesn't always orgasm.

Sarah Briggs
Let's face it - most guys have experienced orgasm. In fact, most experience it without a partner by their mid-teens. Something you might not know is that not all women experience orgasm at all, and even less during intercourse. For a variety of reasons, many women do not masturbate. The clitoris does not make its presence felt as does the penis, and upon reaching sexual maturity, the female body does not experience erections or wet dreams. A lot has been said about the female orgasm. One thing of which you can be certain is that a guy who knows a lot about getting his parters off is a guy who will have his sexual partners eagerly coming back for more.
Women need more
Unlike most men, who find themselves excited when seeing an attractive nude female body, very few women are not triggered by seeing a nude male. And seeing a close-up of genitals is very unlikely to excite any woman. They're just different that way, both genetically and culturally. No doubt that is why men spend so much time at strip clubs, where strip shows for women are more of a novelty. This is also why there are not more nude male magazines for women. Women need mental stimulation to achieve orgasm - especially their first time. Every woman is different in what exactly turns them on, but a lot of women also require a feeling of connection with their partner. Whether or not your partner has come before or not, it is usually not as easy for women to experience an orgasm. It takes an average of twenty minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, and interruption in her mood can completely derail this process. Sure, some girls can come in a few minutes, but they are not the norm. A lot of people ask the question "who is responsible for the woman's orgasm?" Ultimately both partners are probably responsible. Let's face it - guys aren't built the same, and if women keep them guessing about what to do, it may not get done right. On the other hand, a lot of men seem to feel that sticking their penis in their partner should be enough. The truth is that it very rarely is enough, and the men that believe this are usually guilty of wilful ignorance.
Meet the clitoris
The primary trigger for most female orgasms is the clitoris, a small nub of flesh outside and just to the front of the vagina. In many intercourse positions, the clitoris is not touched in any way, making orgasm literally impossible for most women. For most women to come during intercourse, there must be some contact with the clitoris. In most cases, this can easily be achieved by the man's pubic bone. Even easier, either the man or the woman can gently masturbate the woman by lightly rapidly rubbing her clitoris only after she is already excited. The main function of foreplay is to get the partners excited and to allow the female to lubricate. Many men who rush through foreplay because they are anxious to fuck miss part of the point - it takes a woman longer to become excited. If you routinely rush your partners through foreplay, they will not be excited, will very rarely if ever have orgasms with you, and will not look forward to more sex with you with a sense of anticipation.
For women who are uncomfortable with masturbation, a vibrator can be held on the clitoris. Also a stream of water from a bathtub or hot tub can be a great way for a woman to come.
The tongues have it
Most women's favourite sexual activity is not intercourse, it is cunnilingus - pussy eating. The softer, smooth surface of the tongue is very well suited to the very sensitive clitoris. Where fingers can irritate, your tongue is a perfect tool to bring your partner to bliss and keep her there. If you want your partners to come back for more, remember to slow down the foreplay so they're ready when you are, and make sure that they are satisfied as well as you are... And your partners will come back for more!

Peter James
Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why most of us guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous at us looking at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get mad at that too. They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind of pleasure that doesn't involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if this is just another attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know that it is. When you turn on the television, you see a ton of different programming. You can watch soaps, sports, talk shows, anything you can imagine. This is true with porn as well.
These tend to be the type of movies that you fast forward to the sex scenes.

If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.

I think some women don't like porn because it makes them feel uneasy about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard super fast looking at this woman comp aired to when you are in bed with her.

I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women aren't as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy and complain like our girlfriends do.

If your woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her. It will help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn't like porn, try and see if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would like to see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That isn't as bad as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with really big dicks, just makes sure you find some that are having sex with women you find attractive. This way you both win.

There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen many women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They all might not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going into such a place tends to show they are becoming more open.

I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit out your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go at it, why wouldn't women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that seeing two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee and make your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think about it. If you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why not give and take a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want you to go down on her while she watches it. If that is the case, you won't have to watch any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her canal du stink.

Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are addicted to porn. That's right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I don't know if they shake if they haven't wacked it to a porn movie lately, but I think you get the drift. If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to it, I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but harm you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?

Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn't force her to enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it more in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she responds. I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn't rush right into a gang bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn her off in a second.

If she strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she isn't there. Make sure that your computer doesn't leave any tracks behind that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching a porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to watch her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to find two big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.

Like most things in life, moderation is the key. Don't over due it. If she sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will think that she can't arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won't get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn when you are horny!

Peter James

The hip thing these days it seems is for women to call themselves virgins. I don't really understand this, because very few of them are actually virgins. I think women are trying to win back their dignity. They want to seem as pure sugar while they lay on their backs for every Tom, Dick, and Hairy. This trend seems to me a bit far fetched, but hey, I thought getting your eye brow pierced was too. Finding a virgin is like finding a needle in a needle in a hay stack. They are like an animal on the endangered species list. I know they exist, but I'm not sure if I have ever seen one. Sometimes it seems that you almost have to be like the Crocodile Hunter and go out and hunt one down. I don't know if it is worth the time, unless you are into such a beast...

There are many reasons why a woman might want to be a virgin. In this day and age of diseases, its not that bad of an idea. I have yet to have such great sex that it is worth dying for. I have never had sex with a Playboy Playmate, so maybe I don't know what I am talking about.

- By not having sex you don't have any risk of getting pregnant. Men these days don't seem to want to take care of their babies. Nothing would be worse than having a baby and being forced to work at a fast food joint to pay the bills. Being a single mother is tough these days and I don't blame them for not wanting to take that chance. It is hard enough to live on your own, let alone have to worry about kids. - Some women may choose not to have sex for religious reasons. This is probably the number one reason why women stay virgins. They believe that they aren't allowed to have sex until they are married. I went to church when I was a teenager and during this time a lot of girls in the church were having sex. I guess some people practice this, while others just claim that they do.

- There is the type of woman who claims she is a virgin but yet will give you oral sex. She will allow you to stick your fingers in her love cave and get them stinky. She does this so in her mind she is still a virgin, pure and clean.

I'm not sure that I would call someone who can toot your flute like they are playing in an orchestra a virgin. I guess this can help reduce the risk of catching a disease. Also, you don't run the risk of pregnancy. If she wants to toot your flute, let her play all the notes she wants.

The next bunch of virgins are the type that allow you to touch them, but not do anything else. She may allow you to feel her breasts or lick her nipples. If you are lucky she will cop a feel of your penis. That is about as far as it goes with her. She might eventually end up being like the 'virgins' who will toot your flute. I wouldn't count on it though.

This might sound odd, so make sure you are sitting down for this next one. Some 'virgins' enjoy anal sex. They feel since they aren't using their vagina's it really isn't sex. Anal sex is called anal sex for a reason, because it is sex. Just like oral sex is sex. I have no idea why a woman thinks that if she spreads her cheeks, she is still a virgin. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run. All that matters if you can get some of the sweet anal love canal. I won't argue if she thinks this will keep her a virgin.

Sometimes when a woman hasn't had sex in a while, the vagina can shrink to its normal size. She can actually bleed the first time she has sex in a long, long time. Though she isn't really a virgin, she will seem like it. This is like the David Copperfield of virgins. There is some magic going on in tat putty cat.

Some women are what they call 'secondary virgins'. This really blows my mind. Basically they go out and screw everything thing that moves and decide they will be a virgin until they get married. I'm not sure how they can feel they are a virgin, but who am I to understand anything about a woman. I think this usually happens after a woman has a religious experience and decides that she will take the plunge again after she is married.

Why is this so important? To a man, he could care less really. Getting to lay a virgin is like winning a world series, but after a certain age you realize that your chances of this is slim. Personally, I think as you get older it is no longer an issue. You want a woman who can rock your world in bed, not someone who has never done anything before. Other than not having to worry about disease, to me and probably most men, this whole virgin thing is plain stupid.

The reason why some women are so obsessed about this is, they want to remain pure. Their virginity is the only thing that they see as making them pure and clean. They can talk like a sailor who has had too many beers, but yet if that precious tuna canal hasn't been explored, they are pure as can be.

I am amazed that this is still an issue. After all of the women's rights stuff in the 1960's, I would have figured this was long gone. I guess I am wrong. If this confuses you as much as it does me, then just leave it alone. If your woman is claiming she is a virgin, but yet has screwed the High school football team, I would leave her be. She is more than likely a nut case and needs to be avoided.

Peter James
It was only a matter of time. Us men have finally got a wonder drug for our sexual imperfections. Some men call it Viagra, other men call it God. I'm not sure how I feel about it, I have never taken the stuff myself. At this point in my life if I did take it, I would have one hell of a sore arm. If people asked why I was walking around holding my arm funny, I could claim that I have tennis elbow. Now woman have a drug that helps them achieve an orgasm. I know what you are thinking, no its not alcohol. It is called Viatara. It is called the wonder drug of our lifetime.
Viatara is a cream. You cream it to the clitoris... What happens is, it helps blood flow to the clitoris. A woman will enjoy a tingling feeling in her clitoris for about 30 minutes. You should take a little of the cream and rub it on her arm before trying it out on her clitoris. If it becomes itchy, don't use the product on her clitoris. Her arm might get red where you rubbed it in. This is natural and will only last for up to 15 minutes. After 15 minutes all the redness should be gone.
Use these directions when using Viatara on your partner:
1- Pump about three or four squirts and rub it into her clitoris.
2- Manually stimulate her clitoris.
3- You can orally stimulate her clitoris also. Viatara is non toxic. You might notice that it tastes like a very strong vitamin.
4- Penetrate her and rub her clitoris with your fingers. Play around with positions to see which ones is best for this.
5- Don't be upset that she is using a drug to feel good. Would she get upset if you took Viagra to achieve an orgasm? Probably not. She would know that you have a health problem and respect that you are doing something that will make both of your lives better.

Sex isn't everything fellas. We might want to think that it is, but it isn't. Just because you can't please her on your own doesn't mean that she doesn't deserved to be pleased. You need to understand that this can be a medical problem. She doesn't choose not to have an orgasm, there is something wrong with her.

I would much rather prefer her being open about not being able to have an orgasm and having to use Viatara than I would her using it in secret. What you run the risk of is having her use it alone. You won't be able to enjoy the effects of the drug or being able to watch her orgasm. Worse than that, this might actually cause you to not score. She might feel so alienated by your reaction to her problem, that she won't want to have sex with you. How would you feel if you had a health problem and your girlfriend wasn't caring about it? It would make you feel pretty damned uncomfortable!

Having an orgasm is good for our mental health as well. It releases chemicals in our brain that helps calm us. It helps relieve the day to day stresses that we face. We all know what an orgasm does for us. Imagine if you couldn't enjoy an orgasm? You would be one cranky son of a bitch!

Guys, don't sweat this. You really shouldn't. Enjoy this new miracle drug. You and your girlfriend will get more out of sex if you do!

How many times have you talked to a woman and wondered if she is interested in you? I talk to a lot of women every day, I wonder about this day in and day out. How do I know if a woman is interested in me? I don't want to end up looking like a fool if I ask her out and she turns me down. Here is a little story. Most people wouldn't tell you something like this, but what the hell. Maybe you will get a good chuckle out of it. I decided that I wanted to out for a few drinks. It was one of those weeks where all I did was work. I needed to unwind a little. I wasn't on the prowl for some putty cat, but if it came my way I wasn't going to turn it down.  

I go up to the counter and I order a beer. I drank about half of it and watched whatever was playing on the television. All of a sudden a group of about five hot babes came down and sat next to me. I couldn't believe it. They all were wearing hot little outfits that made their bodies scream at me.

I drank a few more beers and I got relaxed. I thought I would say a few words with them. Hell, there is five of them, one of them has to be a prospect. I started off by doing some simple magic tricks. You know, like the one where you 'find' a quarter behind their ear.

After a few more drinks we were all laughing and having a good time. We went to the dance floor and they were all rubbing up against me. I'm not much of a dancer, but when I get a few beers in me I think I am. We went back and had a few more drinks.

By this time all of us where pretty hammered. I was feeling like super man and didn't have a care in the world. I asked one of the hot babes if they wanted to go out with me. She looked like she just seen a dead animal on the side of the highway. Then out of no where, all the girls started laughing at me. I felt about an inch tall. I asked them why they were laughing.... Out of no where the girl I asked out said she thought I was a geek.

I tried to make up some jokes to lighten the situation, but I could see that I was going no where fast. Everyone in the bar was laughing at me, not with me. I mean EVERYONE was laughing. What a flop.

Here are some tips that you can use to know if she is interested. Hopefully, you won't get embarrassed like I did.

If you are talking to a woman and she constantly touches you, chances are she wants more than just a conversation. This doesn't mean that you are going to score. It might mean that you have the potential to get laid, but I wouldn't count on it.

If she hangs around you all the time it might mean she is interested. If her girl friends go to the dance floor and she sticks near you to talk to you, that is a good sign.

If after a night out she invites you in for coffee. She might just be a polite gal, chances are she is inviting you in for some hot action. Take her up on the offer if she doesn't look like road kill.

She talks about sex. Sometimes a woman will talk about a bad lover or that she hasn't been touched in a while. This means that she is definitely interested in you.

She makes sexual comments to you. She doesn't tell you how nice your pants are, but instead tells you how well they fit your ass. Reel her in, you are about to bang her.

She offers you some gum. If she offers you some gum while you are at the bar while she puts some in her mouth, chances are she is getting ready to do some kissing.

If she offers you some of her food. This means that she doesn't have any problems showing her different sides to you.

If she is watching your lips. Most people look someone in the eyes when they are being talked to. If she is looking at your lips, it means she wants you bad. If of course you are in a loud place, she might just be reading your lips because she can't hear you very well.

Here you go my friend. Now you won't be making the same mistake I made. You can use these tips to get that new hunt in the bag in no time. People will call you the stud of the hour after you practice these moves for a little bit.

Of course, depending on the situation, these signs might mean nothing. If she for example is offering you some of her food, she might hate it and feel bad for wasting it. Nothing is perfect and with women, you will never know what they are thinking. You could be a code breaker for the government and a woman would throw you off every time. That is the beauty of the hunt. It is the challenge of the hunt. It is what makes it all worthwhile.

Do you have a friend who is always hanging his tongue out like a dog in a cartoon? That is probably because he gets too much sex. Wait a minute, don't have a heart attack on me. We have all had buddies who complained that their woman wants too much sex. If you have never been in a relationship like this, count yourself as being lucky. You always dream about a woman who never says no, but you never dream about a woman who will nag you all day long about sex. This happens and I have had it happen to me. Let me tell you a little story. I would make sure you are sitting down, because this will blow your mind. You think you want a woman who always wants sex?   
You won't after you read this...

I met this nice girl at a city park actually. I don't remember how it happened exactly. I think I was playing Frisbee with a few guy friends and she came over. She said that she loved Frisbee and asked if she could play along. I wasn't going to say no.

We played for awhile, actually I sat out for a few minutes to drink a beer and watch her tits jiggle as she threw the Frisbee around. She came over and told me she was thirsty and asked if I had a beer she could have. We had a few beers, got loose and talked for awhile.

My buddies left and I kept the cooler with the beer in it because it was mine. We sat and drank beer until it got dark. We probably had about 12 beers each and we were feeling pretty good. I was enjoying our conversation, even though we were pretty much plastered.

I lived about a ten minute walk from the park. I asked her if she would like to come back to my house for a few more beers. I didn't think it would fly, I figured she was just out for free beers. Much to my surprise she took me up on the offer.

We went back to my place and drank a few more beers. She pulled out a joint from her cigarette pack and asked if I would like to smoke it with her. Pot is one of those things that I either do it or I don't. I mean, I might smoke some joints for a few weeks and not touch it for a few years. I hadn't smoked pot in a few years, but I thought what the hell. I might as well smoke some of her pot since she had been drinking my beer all day long.

We smoked the joint and drank a few more beers. We were shit faced and then she started to get all over me. Before I could realize what she was doing, she was sucking my hard penis. Hell, it happened so fast, I was shocked that I was even hard.

Shortly after all of this happened she moved in with me. It started out as being great. We would walk down to the park and have sex on the playground toys. I thought she was the best thing since sliced bread. We probably had sex at least five times a day. She wanted it as soon as she woke up, after every meal, and once before bed. I kid you not, she wanted it like clock work. If she was having a good day, she might want to have sex in the evening while watching television or she would stop by my work to have a quickie during my lunch break.

I hadn't been laid for a month or two before meeting her, so the sex was a much needed release. After awhile though, I stopped wanting to have sex on my lunch break. I actually wanted to eat! But oh no, she was horny and she needed me to take care of her.

I couldn't over sleep. On the weekends I like to sleep in a little late and catch up on some z's that I might have missed during the week. Not with her around I couldn't. She would wake me up at the brink of dawn to have sex with her. I wasn't allowed to sleep in.

The moral of the story is, being with someone like this is your worst nightmare. It might sound like fun for the first week or two, but trust me, it isn't what you think it is.

Here we will briefly discuss why a woman might have such a strong sex drive.

She confuses sex for love. Women do this all the time. They think that if you bang them you love them. Humans have been around for millions of years, but they still haven't gotten a grasp on this.

She might be covering up something from her past. Women can use sex as a way of covering up bad things that have happened in their lives. She might have been in a bad car wreck and seen one of her girl friends die or something. Things can mess up the mind and people want to escape.

Inadequacy. She might feel that she isn't worthy of anyone's love. She will use sex to make her feel like you love her.

She is an addict. Crack cocaine isn't the only thing that is addictive, women can get addicted to sex. They might also use this as a means for relieving stress.

Hey, they just want to get laid! Some women just like sex. What is wrong with that? Some people want to get the nasty as many times as they can before they leave this planet.

Unless it is a pain in the ass, which it very easily can be, I wouldn't worry to much about this. I wouldn't get paranoid if your new girlfriend wants to get it on every other hour. If you see this kind of behavior over a period of months or years, I would suggest that you talk to her about it. She might just love sex, but there could be a problem. Sometimes people use sex to cover things up that they could take care of if they talked to a therapist.

We all have tried to get girls that seem impossible to reach. People will tell you all the time "oh you can never get her", why? Why can't you have her? Here are some simple rules and guidelines to go by to help you out. Here is a guide to get any girl you want! Make it happen, nothing is easy out there but if you do things the right way she will be all yours. Be confident with who you are and who you want to be. A woman loves nothing more then to be hanging around with a man who's confident. Know that you're smart, know that you're handsome and a great fun person for anyone to be with. Don't be conceited though.  
1. One of a kind
-Women love to be pampered and we love to be adored. We love to have a man know what our favorite flower is. Ask and we will tell, it's that simple. Me personally I hate red roses. men give them to women all the time because they think "well everyone else like them so will she" WRONG! Each one of us is a different person. She might love roses but if you're trying to get me get me something that's different. Exotic is always good. Something you don't see around alot. Just a simple flower can make a huge difference in the way she looks at you. Make a night she'll never forget. Being as polite as possible but letting her know that you have thought about the date and you think she will enjoy what you have planed for the two of you. A woman likes a man who's in control. Don't get me wrong we like to have some control too but there's just something about a man that knows what he wants. It's very sexy.
2.Quiet time
- It's very hard to get to know someone when you're at a loud party. After you have been eyeing the girl you want for a little while to see if she's taken or if she's with someone etc... ask her if she's like to have a drink with you. Pick a quiet spot and get to know her and let her know you. If all goes well with that conversation ask her if she'd like to go out for coffee or a quiet walk just outside. You don't want her thinking that you're trying to rape her or anything so if she says no relax and take it slow. Make her feel safe. Whatever you do give her your undivided attention. Women crave this!
3. brawn and brains
-Let her knwo that you're into her. Make comments on how smart she is. Women love that. There's no better feeling then when someone just out of nowhere and compliments you. Smile at her and say "you're amazing, you're intelligent and beautiful". Don't always talk about how pretty she is, that can get dull after a while. We want to knwo that you're not only thinking about our physical attributes. We like you to think of us as equals.
4.I need a say
-Opinions, we all have them and we all voice them. Be open mined when listening to her's. Ask her how she feels about things. About life,death,love anything to see how she feels about certain topics. Get to know her mentally the rest will all come in time and you'll both be more in tuned with each other.
5.Make an impact
-Woo her, meaning the little things make a big difference. Men today don't open doors for women and women love that. Do the little things that make a difference. Also do things like when ordering desert only order one not two. This way you can share it. Feed her and let her feed you, make a little game out of it. Write a little note and have it sent to her office " looking forward to tonight". We all know that women pick at the little things because most men don't bother anymore. Make an impression and do them.
6. Mood of romance
-Create an atmosphere of comfort. Appeal to all her senses. Play slow romantic music. Get her favorite beverage (there's nothing worse then drinking something you don't like or drinking it because you have no choice). Talk with respect and listen to her, treat her like a queen. Wherever you bring her make sure it's clean and relaxing. When you get her to this point you can relax too.
7.
-Foreplay isn't oral sex and kissing. Foreplay is anything to set the mood. Example: send her flowers at work for no reason at all. Let her know you're thinking about her. When the night arrives (the date) take her by the hand a give a soft gentle kiss. Don't be too pushy with her you might scare her. Take things nice and slow, it will all happen when it's ready to happen.
8. Kids shall play
-Playtime is the best part of a date I would have to say. At home or out in public. Order one plate for the both of you, feed each other, tease one another, enjoy each other. This is the time when you let her know that you have a serious side but you also know when to hang up your tie. Don't be afraid to get a little dirty. Act as if you're all alone. Show her how playful you are, women love a man that loves playtime.
9.Forget about it
-Surprise! So you plan the whole date and it seems like she's not having much fun. Well forget about it! Let fate decide whats going to happen next. The whole point of this date is to allow the two of you to get to know each other and enjoy your time with each other. Make suggestion and ask her if there's anything that she'd like to do with you.It's better to change and redirect plans then one or both of you not having a good time.
10.For me?
-Women love unexpected gifts from a man. It makes them feel special. Give her something that's for her, not the last girl or whatever. She's different so treat her differently. Women don't like to be given the same flower or the same gift as the last girl. We want to be treated differently. Give her your gift when there's only one way she can show you her appreciation for her gift.
Recovery Tips:
*Ending relationships is hard. Be as nice and respectful as possible.
*If you think you might have a S.T.D (sexually transmitted disease) you might want to take a walk to your local sexual health clinic.
*I know it's hard and it really hurts when you break up, but that's life. We all move on to another. Ask yourself this "why did we break up"? When people break up it's usually a sign that something's not there anymore. If you were cheated on or she cheated on you, then whoever did it had no respect for the other. Find someone that you will respect.
*Lust is where you're attracted physically but not mentally. Love is where you love the person mentally, emotionally and physically. After you've have sex see if it's lust or love. Love after sex is still there you can feel it. Lust is there and then it's gone.
*Winning a woman's heart:make her feel like she's the only woman on the face of the earth.
*Take life a step at a time (day by day)
*First and foremost. Pick the perfect location. A little corner table, sitting beside each other. Candle lit, a nice bottle of wine. Soft romantic love songs. (Find out what her favorite songs are) Don't forget to bring her her favorite flower. Last but not least that special gift just for her.

When to plant that first kiss? Most of us men only care about when we will get some action for the first time, let alone a measly kiss. This is where we make too many mistakes with women. If you aren't out to get a quick piece of ass, take it slow. You should be able to tell if you are going to get laid quickly. If she has screwed more than two of your friends, you know you will get her in the bag quickly. Often times though it isn't that easy. We want to rush things. If the girl is sweet and she takes over your heart, then there is no reason to make things move to fast. Instead, enjoy her company.  
 
The mistake most men make is that they think they should get a kiss on the first date. In my experience this isn't true. I think that if we rush it too fast, we will end up scaring her away.

Think of it like you are in the woods hunting a deer. If you go in too fast, you will make too much noise and you will scare it away. If you do that, you will end up with no delicious deer meat to fill your stomach.

Instead you go in slow. You walk slowly so you don't make too much noise. You scan the landscape to make sure there is no deer in the area before moving on. If you see that there is no deer, then you slowly creep up to your next waiting spot. You know if you do this, you will eventually get that deer. When you get that deer it will be the most joyful feeling you ever had. You will eat the meat for days to come and enjoy it like it was your first bite.

Your first kiss should be the same way. You should be just like you would be if you were waiting for the deer. Don't push it too fast, or you will scare it away.

What is the hurry? If you hurry too fast you will scare her away. Would you run up behind the deer in the woods? No! You would creep up to it and be patient. You know if you are patient, you will get your kill.

You have to understand her way of thinking. Without understanding how a woman a woman thinks, you will end up putting yourself in a bad situation. Ever wonder why you aren't getting laid? Here is one of the reasons.

Unless she is a crazed slut, she has to be careful. In this day and age of rape and violence towards women, she has no choice. It could save her life. A woman today has a real reason to be afraid. You can pick up any newspaper and almost every time read about some violent act that has taken place on a woman.

She is smart, she is protecting her safety. We are taught from a child to stay away from strangers. Unless your date is your sister, then chances are she doesn't know much about you. If you are going on a date with your sister, I'm afraid I can't help you out. You need professional help.

I read your article and stepped out of my office. I went for a bite to eat and went for a walk. I needed some time to be able to think about what to tell you. I wanted to make sure that the advice was solid. My first reaction was to tell you to tell her to stop giving you oral for awhile. Maybe she would take down a bit when she wasn't doing it all the time. That didn't make much sense to me. If she is sucking too hard now, she will suck with more force if she hasn't done it for a long time. Chances are she thinks that she is pleasing you. Maybe a past lover enjoyed being sucked so hard. I know some men brag about how hard their women can suck.  
This is one of the emails that we received. This is a real problem and I am glad that he sent us this email.
Hello,
I'm not sure where to start. I am kind of shy about telling you about this. I have never talked to anyone about my sex life before. Not even with my buddies. I guess I don't like to kiss and tell. I am with this great woman. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. She gives me sex when ever I want it. She will have sex 24/7 if I ask her to. The problem is, when she gives me oral, she sucks too hard. It is like she is trying to suck a pea through my penis. It actually hurts a lot. I have had a sore penis for three weeks now because of this. She actually sucks it so hard the head of my penis is sore.
What can I do to stop this?
Thanks,
Matt
Thanks for the email Matt. We love to hear from your readers. It makes me feel like we are actually providing a service to all of you guys out there.
You need to make sure that you are able to talk freely in the bedroom. This is a must. If you can't talk in the bedroom, chances are you can't talk about anything in your relationship. Comunication is very important in a relationship. If you don't talk, it won't last. She is more than a vagina, she should be your best friend. You wake up to this woman every day, you should be able to enjoy her. If you can't, I would say that it isn't worth the amount of time that you invest in her. That is a sad thing, but it is true.
First, I would suggest to you that you evaluate your communication. If you think it is good, then move on from there. If it isn't, then you need to have a conversation about it. You need to tell her that you need to be able to speak your mind. There is no need to be in a relationship that you can't discuss your feelings. If you feel that you are able to be open with her. Tell her that she is hurting you. Don't be full of anger when you tell her. Tell her nicely. She will react in a positive manner. There is no reason to open a can of whip ass on her.
This is what I would do.
Start off with a nice dinner. Cook it yourself if you know how to cook. Set the mood, buy some candles and incense. Make the meal as romantic as you can. Cook things that you can feed each other. Fix oysters or finger sandwiches. Take her up to the room for some great sex. Tell her that you want to tell her what to do. Make it like a role playing game. If she sucks on you too hard, tell her that she is sucking too hard. Tell her that it hurts and to suck more gently. She will do it if you tell her nicely.
During this time, tell her nicely that she was sucking on you too hard. Be gentle and tell her how you like it. Tell her if you like your balls rubbed while she is doing it. Allow yourself to enjoy what she is doing to you. Get loose, if it feels good moan. If she hears you moaning, she will know to keep it up. That will be her signal that she is doing a good job. As always, try to keep a free and open line for communication. There is no reason not to. If either of you aren't being pleased in bed, you should be able to say something about it. If you don't, well Matt, get used to having a sore penis.

Kissing, cuddling and touching are an important part of lovemaking and couples that run their lives in this way use every opportunity to share such affection. The slightest touch or pat can be worth a thousand words and a hug at just the right time makes words redundant. Sometimes these little intimacies simply say, "I love you", yet on other occasions it is clear they are preludes to some sort of sexual activity. The couple in tune with each other know without saying, which is which, and use such teasing, even perhaps to some level of arousal, as a sort of work-up to intercourse later. In this article here we explore how you can make love to your partner without physically having sex, yes men it can be done.  
EXTENDED FOREPLAY
This kind of "lovemaking" then becomes like an extended foreplay both know will end in lovemaking some time in the near future.
If you run your intimate life in this way, lovemaking takes on a rather different level of importance. It is now no longer the be-all and end-all of the intimacies you share. This means that you will cope better with the ups and downs of your sexual appetites and, mutually attuned, detect sexual interest early and know how to act on it. Then, when you do have intercourse it is much more meaningful because it takes place against a background of loving interest in one another.
Not only are inequalities and variations in sexual appetite better coped with, but the occasional failure, rather than becoming a disaster, is kept in perspective because it is understood that the relationship has far more going for it than whether or not genital contact is always good.
SECRETS
Lovers of longstanding sometimes find they communicate without words; they seem to know what the other is thinking and feeling. Shared secrets help to make this a secret society. The woman may whisper to her man while they are on the dance floor, that she's wearing his favourite underwear, for example. "Accidentally" touching your lover's body in a certain place or in a particular way can have a devastating effect. Some couples can achieve the same impact with just a look.
Many couples have a private language, that they use even in front of others, as they tell one another about their feelings, arousal, or their anticipation of erotic things to come, which all add to the excitement. All of this makes such a couple much less likely to suffer from jealousies because they flirt with each other and look to one another to answer their needs. They do not then see members of the opposite sex as threatening because they know that what they have between them is vastly more valuable than anything a quickie relationship could offer.
If all of this seems nothing more than a fantasy to you, there are ways of improving things: Start of by going back to courtship behaviour; many couples have never really courted - taking every opportunity to show love in different ways. Give one another presents for no reason. They don't have to be expensive; it's the thought that matters; kiss more; telephone to say, "I love you." Leave love-notes around where they'll be found by your lover; go out with one another as if it were your first date as teenagers. Really try to please one another as if you were just starting to date. You may be surprised how much you've taken each other for granted over the years and how stale the caring and love for one another has become.
It is helpful in any loving relationship to remember to bear in mind the airline motto "we never forget you have a choice". There are many couples that let things slip, perhaps year after year, becoming more and more lazy and thoughtless only to find when they go back to courtship they've all but forgotten how to deal with one another in this way. As with so many things in life practice makes perfect and over the weeks you'll become more proficient at courting one another. With luck and effort, the combination of making courtship a priority, and your increased experiences of life, will reap you a far richer harvest than would have been possible when you were first going out at the beginning of your relationship.
SENSUAL HOLIDAYS
One of the most fruitful ways of making all this happen is to organise sensual holidays. A sensual holiday can last from an evening to a weekend. The main purpose is to get away from your normal day-to-day routine both in and out of bed and to really court one another.
You can prepare for the holiday beforehand to get best out of it. Ideas include: the uses of herbal aphrodisiacs such as ginseng, yohimbe; breakfast in bed; one sensual massage; lovemaking in an unusual place; a novel type or position of lovemaking you know your lover would like; or an evening devoted to your lover's every whim. Each couple will have their own ideas as to what suits them, or they've always wanted to do.
Send your tokens some days before the holiday so your lover has time to prepare (if necessary). This also helps build up excited anticipation for the holiday. Remember, none of this need be expensive - the whole thing can take place at home with perhaps a special dinner or outing just for the two of you. Whatever you do and wherever you do it, the main thing is to give yourselves over to one another totally and to aim to do things that please and delight. Talk about it afterwards to see what worked well and what didn't. It's best to take it in turns to arrange such holidays so each lover has the opportunity to call the shots and decide what they want.
MASSAGE
Sensual massage is a wonderful way of lovemaking without intercourse. This form of loving contact is often underestimated. There are few things a couple can experience together that allow them to be more in touch with themselves, and to communicate at every level than a loving, sensual massage. Whether or not this becomes an erotic massage is up to you, but even if one does lead to the other you still don't have to end up having intercourse - you could stimulate each other or simply cuddle and kiss.
FULL BODY ALERT
Sight, sound, smell and taste are powerful aphrodisiacs - exploit them to the full. Right from babyhood most of us use fewer of our senses than we might. In learning to please one another without intercourse it can be helpful to look at how each sense could be better used to serve lovemaking. Here are some ideas:
THE POWER OF AROMA
Use perfume, perfumed soaps, scented oils for massage, burning joss sticks, flowers, room perfumes, and anything else (not all at once!) that helps enhance your sense of smell. Remember, if you perfume yourself too heavily you'll mask the natural odours that are such a turn-on for your lover. Make sure you are clean and washed but not so squeaky clean your natural smells are obliterated. Learn, perhaps for the first time, how each part of your lover's body smells.
SOUND EFFECTS
The lover's sound can be delicious as you make love. The little groans, sighs and moans that say "I love you" are all valuable cues to how things are going. With the lights off, learn to recognise how your lover's sexual arousal cycle is progressing just by sound alone. Take a delight in the sounds of your bodies reacting with each other. Use beautiful music to accompany lovemaking.
ACQUIRING THE TASTE
Get to know how your lover tastes by licking all over. Taste mouths, faces, sweat, genital secretions and so on. This is intimately tied up with the smelling exercise since taste and smell are so closely interlinked. Experiment with all kinds of tactile sensations using not only your bodies, but also foods, clothing, vibrators and so on.

What happens? Women usually will fake it under these circumstances. This isn't Monday night football, don't do this sort of thing to her. Be calm and relaxed buddy, you are getting laid. Your first huddle has already been jumped. Studies show that 70% of women are faking orgasms. That means, chances are, your woman is too. Why put her through that? I mean, get a grip. It isn't that damn important. IF she is faking then obviously you are doing something wrong. You could just be making her feel uncomfortable due to the fact she knows that you are waiting for her to scream in ecstasy. I will tell you how you can spot a faked orgasm.  
First you have to understand how your woman achieves an orgasm.  Most women will achieve an orgasm with clitoral stimulation, while others need to have their G spot worked.  Usually women who need their G spot fancied, won't be able to have an orgasm if you stimulate their clitoris.  This can be true with women who need to have their clitoris stimulated to have an orgasm.
 
I had one girlfriend that couldn't have an orgasm unless her clitoris was stimulated.  We could have sex for an hour and if I didn't stimulated her clitoris, she wouldn't get off. To know if your woman is faking, you need to know what makes her cum.  It is that simple.  If you are doing something that goes against your experiences and she cums, then chances are she is faking it.  If you are trying something new and she has an orgasm, there is a good chance she is faking it.  Keep that in mind while you observe her.
 
There are plenty of ways to tell if your woman is faking it.
 
Mechanical moaning.  If she is moaning like what you would hear on a porn movie, chances are she is faking it.
 
Her noises don't match what is going on.  If you are performing oral sex and you take a break for a second and she is still moaning, chances are she is faking it.  It is like someone who keeps on dancing after you turn the radio off.
 
You don't feel her PC muscle gripping your penis.  If she is about to orgasm or having an orgasm, this will go nuts.  You will be able to feel it.
 
Her breathing.  If she is breathing heavy while she has an orgasm, she will continue it for a little while.  If she can turn it off like a switch, she is probably faking it.
 
These things doesn't mean that she is faking it for certain.  She might just actually be like this.  If she does all of these things though, I would assume she is faking.  Give her an Emmy award after you have sex and see how she reacts. Why is she faking it?  Well, once you understand why, you might be surprised.  Well, maybe not too surprised if you have a brain instead of like a bunch of cheese in your head like some guys.
 
Here is some reasons why she might fake it.
 
She may not have ever had an orgasm before.  Now, this might sound a little weird but it does happen in women.  I have known several women who have never had an orgasm.  I always try to convience them that I can give them one, but I never seem to score with these kind of chicks.
 
She gets sore really fast.  This could be because of her body type or because she doesn't produce enough lube.  Some women have very thin vaginal walls.
 
She thinks that it is so important to you. She is willing to fake it JUST FOR YOU!   This is why you don't want to put too much pressure on the topic.  To me if you do, you are forcing her to lie to you. 
 
How can you stop her from faking? 
You can be open and keep a direct line of coversation flowing.  This means you talk about what makes her have an orgasm.  You try to understand what you can do so she doesn't have to fake it.  If you are kind and gentle with her, she will open up and tell you what you need to do.